Jen, I have planned to get another urine sample from Luna next week (this week my vet is on vacation) to be sure the bladder infection is gone.

And yes, I have three litter boxes, they are in two different rooms. I clean them very well (several times a day) because I know Luna cannot stand dirty boxes, but I don't think this is her problem at the moment. But box #4 is worth a try!

nodgeness , I'll try that with Luna on every occasion now, and she's responding very well - of course only as long as Lily doesn't interfere. I'm sure Luna desperately needs some extra time with meowmie, but she's not the demanding type.

bisi.cat , I'm sure this is at least part of the problem! Things worked so much better when I was still at work, I think the problem only occurs when I'm around much - so it's either my stress they're picking up or it's jealousy!

And yes, Luna is sometimes eating from Lily's bowl, but according to my vet, she doesn't need her diet anymore because there haven't been struvite crystals this time. She's eating Hill's Indoors now which she has to do because she would constipate without that.

Kirsten