soledad; because I am not sure if she is. If she is, I absolutely promise myself and everyone that every kitten will be spoiled. there are "ifs" right now. The Moral: Be Prepared?

to be honest, jen, I respect your perspective and I don't blame you a bit for feeling that way and you're not first person 'educating' me that. I do feel horrible too!

the nodgeness's reply was the best one I ever get, thank you..that have washed off my defense for the day

ps; I will post out the lastest pictures in other threads when I have time! where should I anyway..

I think Whispers is cool! goes with my precious cats, Zephyra (breeze) and Ocean.. well hope to hear more choices of the name..