come on Richard, don't be fussy over what words are used... the fact is, this is very unfair. popcornbird, I feel terrible for you, and I wish I could write to someone? about this. it is not fair that young muslim girls can't get together in summer camp, like pcb says, like girls (and boys) have been doing for decades. to ban them from doing so is just plain STUPID and MEAN and UNNECESSARY!