I agree that pictures are the only thing you should let her have. Ask to be left anonymous. No address, no name, no phone numbers. Make sure the pictures you send do not have any distinct objects that could identify your home (like car license paltes, mailbox number, apartment complex name, etc..)

Seeing this woman is not going to be good for Lolly. It doesn't matter whether or not that woman abused her or not, she was there when Lolly was abused. It doesnt matter whether or not the lady was living in a hell of her own and really couldnt do anything to help her. Lolly doesnt know that.

Good luck in your decision.