Oh SAS,

I'm so sorry! Don't ignore your instincts if you feel Miley wont ever feel OK in her own home with Ti there. You have to think of the resident cat(s) first, its only fair.

I have a feeling it would be WAY different with a kitten, Miley could tell it who's boss.

Do what YOU think it right. We don't live with you and can't see what's going on. I can tell you are emotionally drained by this, as is Miley girl.

Take care,
Kelly