My little boy cat, Monty is what I call a gentle giant. He has very long legs, never bites, hisses or scratches me. The only problem is, he only comes out for me. When my boyfriend is over, he runs and hides and tries desparately to get away from him. He tried so hard to get away from him the other day, he ran into the ironing board and knocked himself out. My boyfriend is a cat lover, and is gentle with my other cat, and attempts to do the same to monty, but Monty is deathly afraid of him. Should I be concerned? or should I just let Monty get used to my boyfriend when he is around and let Monty come to my boyfriend when he is ready? I don't know. I don't want my little boy to have a heart attack over this. Can any one relate or lend some advice?