Sallyanne I am sorry your two are putting you through this. I can imagine how sad and frustrated you must be feeling right now. I think if any cat should have ever gotten Miley's fur up it should have been Gabe, but aaah there was gentle Graemer to act as mediator and peacemaker. I know you must miss him so much at times like these, remembering his sweet little personality. I do hope that the Feliway helps. It sounds like it is certainly well worth trying.