thanks again guys! And lut , you got it right, "Such a sweet naughty face" boy does he ever get naughty! We got him out of his clawing habit now he bites instead!

But I think once we move into our new house we are going to get a new playmate for Toby My fiance doesn't exactly love cats as much as I do (or he THINKS he don't ).... but we had a compromise to wait til we moved out of our current place. I'm really looking forward to it!

A quick question - would a male cat get along better with another male .. or a female? Or does it even make a difference?