Originally posted by mugsy
I'm with Tanya, we have tried fostering and kept them all (except one that we wanted and the SPCA wouldn't let us, which is why we dissolved our relationship with them). I just get WAY too attached. I admire all who can open their homes and hearts to these dogs waiting to find their forever homes.
Some of them just rip my heart out when they leave. I always make sure their adoptive parents know how to reach me and that I want to know how they are doing. I keep a book of pictures and significant events for each foster and that goes with them when they leave along with favorite toys, blankets ect. I also have a deal with the shelter we foster for that should any of my former fosters come back, they come directly to my house forever. Fortunately, it hasn't happened yet, but if it does we have the room to accomodate.

Only once was I actually thrilled to see a foster go. The day Summit got adopted I practically did a happy dance as her daddy drove away with her! She was dog aggressive and keeping her isolated was way too much work--150 pounds of aggressive malamutt was not fun! Fortunately, her new daddy is able to deal with her effectively and loves her to bits! Usually, I am a crying mess when they leave!