Oh, I wish I could help too!!
We didn't go on a honeymoon after our wedding, because we didn't want to board Kito!!
I'm sorry I can't help out, but I feel the same way you do--if we go somewhere, either they have to come, or someone TRUSTWORTY has to stay with the, so they get lots of attention while we're gone. We've only gone away once without them, and a friend of mine stayed at the apartment with Kito (before we had Abbey)--Good luck finding someone!!