im not allowed to take her to the vet, but after much begging my mother finally said she will think about it....grrr.....and about the chicken bone thing, i know that dogs can choke on it, but i read that cats dont, cuz they dont swallow them or something? i cant remember ahk....but until i do take her to the vet (if ill ever be allowed for crying out loud) should i put her on soft food?