I know its easy for me to say, but I encourage you to give it more time. Cats seem to settle down well after we have. Keep on giving her lots of loving and try to get back to how things were before grandma died (I'm sorry ) and before Nutmeg came to live with you.

The medication in a liquid form sounds great...maybe she'll take to that better and feel better.

Poor things, both of you. You'll be in my prayers...please keep us updated.