I know exactly what you mean when you say that your beautiful girl is a loving 60lb. lap dog; my boy is too!
He love people & other dogs & attention & loves his loving! If you greet him on his walk you've made a friend for life!
Roxy is a gorgeous gir & it's your neighbor's loss that they don't want to get to know how loving your baby doll can be.
Much love to you both & extra kisses & belly rubs to Roxy