Emy, I think a senior cat lady cannot look more elegant than you in your grey tux. You are just too goodlooking for words. But on top of that you seem to have the sweetest purrsonality ever - it is really heartwarming to read your story. You are very close to your mom and have comforted her and made her laugh- these are the best things that can happen between cats and humans.
We wish you a wonderful long and happy life over there in California