You are never a bad Mommie, we all just make mistakes from time to time.... Just yesterday I did something that made me feel so terribly bad..... I was sitting in the chair eating. Samantha on one side trying to get in my plate, Caramella on the other side doing the same.. I was taking a paper towel and flopping it in their face telling them "NO!" and when I went back to flop in in Samantha's face again, she had moved and I ended up hitting her in her jaw!!! OH! I could have cried, I felt SO bad, poor baby was so stunned and her feeling so hurt that she wouldn't come near me for a long time.. I have never lifted a hand to her in anger and she knows it but her feelings were just SO hurt!!