Any form of higher education is a plus - be it CC, trade school, or university. You almost sound to me like you are thinking of yourself as a failure for not being accepted at one of the universities you applied to. You need to get that out of your head. Think positive, and know that you are already in the winner's circle for even applying to these schools. No matter which you choose, it can only lead to a better life for you. Don't be embarrassed and apologize for the school you ultimately choose - just know that it was your decision and you are definitely moving forward with your goals. GOOD LUCK!!!!

p.s. Even tho my granddaughter is going to MU - she absolutely HATES NJ. Only 4.5 years to go......