Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
RICHARD - it seems to me you have your own house next to your mom's, right? Will you be ok in that regard?

You can choose your friends, but your relatives are wished on you. Hopefully this sale will take the nasty family members out of your life, and you will enjoy some freedom there.

HUGS.
It's a guest house on the property.

The funny thing about it? On the zoning plan, it's listed as a 2+1. The GH is attached to a one car garage/ workshop. So, technically it does not exist.

I am hoping that will cause bidding war and jack the price up.

I can only hope.

I plan on using my money to find a place in the hills for a year and relax.

I want to write get away from family and everything. I want to sleep for a week, eat when I want and relax with a huge white cat.

I want to take all my children but it's not possible, unless I win the lotto.



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I am not looking at the settlement as a reward. I find it sad and plan to use it wisely.

I have asked the two sibs on my side to try and help out with the moving and throwing away all the shiat in the house but they just really do not have time for me.

The one sib going to Disneyland?

I have to laugh because he attends many events-next month he plans on going to a hockey game in Las Vegas, yet he's filed bankruptcy.

He also parked a car in the driveway for one month because it was not running and he was given a ticket on it.

I never said one word about the week that turned into a month, yet when I asked him to let me park my truck in his driveway for one week so I could get a dumpster in to clean out the back yard?

No, impossible.



I was talking to a friend and stated the fact that I wanted to to write a letter to everyone about how I felt.

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Before Ma died we were trying to get a lawyer in to get her to do a will,
It was going to cost us about 2k and I called my sis to tell her about it.

Had we all pitched in it would have been doable.......After I called her and told her the cost and asked what we should do, she stopped and took a few seconds then asked me what I wanted from her.

She thought I was going to say money, but I said, "How's about a little support?"

She flipped out and ended the convo a few seconds later.

LOL, I really want to be blunt and calculating about this.

But, it's better they deal with a conscience than my big mouth-that way they can get the truth faster that way.