If this woman is happy with the church and her new friends, then that's her choice. It's called freedom of religion and one of her rights. I'm sure she would leave if it was all that horrible. I'm pretty certain that no one is threatening her or trying to restrain her. Maybe these new friends are more accepting of her as she is, and her weight doesn't matter to them. Not everyone is obsessed with one's physical appearance, and it's what inside that counts. Give me an overweight and not exceptionally attractive friend any day, over the one who places importance of appearance at the top of the list - "attractive" on the outside and empty on the inside!