No matter how big your heart is, for your own well being, you have to learn how to say no. You have enough issues of your own, without being drawn in to other people's problems. You can't help or fix everybody, even tho you want to, and I know that it makes you feel bad turning people and cats away. If you had the means to help, then that would be another story. Try to remember that charity starts at home.

Please take care Melissa. You have enough on your own plate without taking on more.