Hey ya'll, I don't think you're being rude...it's cool. You just care about fish. I love our fish. They're all sweet. We've had all these fish though for like atleast several years except the parrots...we've only had them about 1 year. But none of them have died... We've had some fish die this past year and stuff, but they were all from my brother's tank. He has cichlids and they're all mean and aggressive w/ each other...

The Paradise fish isn't a type of gourami (sp?) I don't think. I'll try going to a few websites and find a pic. of one...