Maybe you are on to something - could your husband give you a rest and maybe feed him more often? He may be suspicious of you and "what's in his food". When he is feeling his old self again, your feeding him won't be a problem.

Gosh, you have my prayers for this boy - I understand completely your frustration, love and concern. It is like you will DO ANYTHING, ANYTHING, to get them to eat!

With my kitties, I sure have been there, done that.............