Koko made some great points.

Here's an example?

Can of soda?

Do you have to ask him to grab you one?

Or does he,
Grab you one when he goes to the fridge?
Get's a glass of ice, pops it open, pours it and places the straw in it?

IF he does it all, he might like you.

If he does a few of those things, he might like you.

If he grabs you a can and just hands it to you, then plops down next to you on the sofa, he might like you.

Us guys rely on the "Adjustable Levels of Love and Caring'. We do care, but we are so disconnected from our feelings at times we forget how to say things like, I.........I...............I luh.....................I.........luh............. ..


See, I can't even WRITE it!

As dumb as this sounds? Would you rather have an insincere "I.........Luh......." or little actions, time together or knowing looks passed between y'all?

For the record.

If you confront a person and ask them to explain why they cannot be more vocal about luh.....luhhhhhh......love.....you may force then to blurt it out with no meaning behind the wordage.

This was a GIANT problem in a relationship I had. We worked it out when I explained that if I didn't care or luh....luh........luh......love her. I'd be out
working another side of the street.

I think it worked. Is 13 years a long time?