yes that was helena and she LOVED jasmine (what a great great kid jasmine is) and still talks about the dog picnic. she speaks dog well, but cat is being learned. and yes karen it was me looking for the manners book, i didn't realize that i was such a fuddyduddy about this, but there are some things that are gross behaviors and i'd like to find ways to make manners fun (like chewing with your lips closed), and i thought maybe a kids book would be a starting place.