I finally went over to see for myself.
It wasn't THAT bad...
I made a cold bed for her, just some blankets over ice packs to cool her down. she was waaaaaaay too hot. cant force her to drink but a little childrens pedialight in a bowl and she drank some of that. 2 1/2hours after the cold bed, and shut in a room where it was dim light and nobody trying to touch and check on her she had a solid stool and was fine.

I talked to them about the vet, they don't see it in her interest so I called a vet I know to see if this was a reasonable conclusion. At her age and NEVER been to the vet before... well 1 time, being an outside cat living in the trees off of birds and small rodents/just scavenging for more than half her life, doing a full blood panel x-ray didn't seem like it would do much for her after the cost. Finding out she has a fatal disease, or cancer, or anything like that will just cause emotional pain. She shows no physical signs of pain or distress, and if she did have cancer, going through any therapy to treat an illness could be just as fatal. I made a promise with them that if she does start to show signs of pain or acts different she must go in to see what is wrong. They agree. So for now "Cutie" is fine, she just needed a little cooling down in the end! Thank you everybody, if I have any more questions I hope that I am welcome back!