Aww, Mary, I'm sorry you went through that today ((((hugs)))). It's funny what will set us off like that. When I see a black cat, I automatically think of my Mikey, the lovingest (is that a word?) cat EVER. I know you miss your Puddy; you talked about her so much on here. The hurt doesn't exactly go away, but it fades a bit in time. I still miss Mikey and he's been gone almost 12 years.

He was such a lover. Never hissed or growled, not a mean bone in his body. He just craved attention and I gave him all I had!

Just remember Puddy (and Mikey) are waiting patiently for us............