ok... so where to begin.
I ended up taking a friend with me this weekend. I had arranged a blind date for a friend up there and thought that my friend might be a good match. Eh. It went ok, but not as expected, but I hope they can stay friendly and still enjoy eachother's company (yeah, they both swing/party or whatever you want to call it). Setting up blind dates for swingers is harder than I thought it would be. Both sides are so picky!!
We all had dinner out on the deck. It was gorgeous here on Saturday. Sunny and almost 80*. We had steaks on the grill, roasted veggies, some crusty bread, wine, beer, and good conversation and company.
We ended up getting changed at Johnny's place for the party. So much for me being shy and wanting to change in private. I had enough beer in me that I didn't care, and was just like, whoosh... there it goes, lol. So, we got ready, went to the party, and actually everyone except for a few really were wearing pjs and robes and lingerie kind of things. It was very relaxed and calm, and NOTHING like the first party. Actually it was a little too tame and boring for me, but better that than scary, lol. Had some more to drink, flirted with a few of the men there, lol, and then we went back to Johnny's to hot tub. It was a really nice evening all the way around!
I so enjoy spending time with Dave. He's just so sweet and funny. I'm feeling pretty comfortable up at the resort, so this is going well. I haven't gone nude outside yet, and I don't know when that will happen, but right now the pace is pretty good for me. One thing I will say is that if Dave has his kids with him, I will not disrobe. I just don't think that is cool. For the pool, that's one thing, because at the pool there you are NOT allowed to wear anything in it, but other than that, I don't think I would do it. I know they are used to it, but still.... just not what I think would be appropriate at this junction.
If anyone wants more details, I can PM you, lol. Other things happened, but I'd rather not talk about them on the open forum.
I'll let you know if there is a next party, or if it's just going to start up regular since the season begins in about 3 weeks, so it should get moving almost every weekend at that point.
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