Two of my cats have never gotten along with each other. Buddy is the oldest cat and has been in my home the longest. Mamma has never liked Buddy since I adopted her. I believe she wants to be the Alpha cat. Buddy and Mamma cannot even pass each other without her giving him a swat. Sometimes he gets fed up and chases her and then she growls and hisses terribly. I really do not like the fact that they don't get along. Mamma has been with me now for a couple of years and I thought by now they would work out their differences. Any suggestions on how to get them to love each other? Or, in the alternative, to not fight like they do.