I'd go with harmons, with a touch of feral. Our Lucky does not like to be picked up, but I have to give him a hug in the morning and one when I get home from work. He will sit by me to watch TV, other than that do not touch. This is a kitten we got at 1 day old. Dimetri on the other hand (about the same age) loves to be held and cuddled. Roz (about 3 weeks younger) will only cuddle with my wife and only on her terms. This little girl torments Lucky most of the time. But she has to say hello when I come home.
We have already learned what they like and dis-like. The list for the CREW could go on and on. Some like the hugs and attenction, some like my wife, others are mine only, and we have others that no one can get near.
They all have different personalities and we love the differances.