A friend of mine just recently gave me some very good advice: Pray for or wish for what you want to happen, not for what you don't want to happen. In other words, think and act to the positive, not the negative.

I couldn't figure out what you were trying to say as to what went wrong with your neighbor, but if it scares you that much, maybe a move is in order.

Glad to hear you are home and are safe and sound.