Sorry to hear Alissa
I got told I was trying to get attention when I made a thread about having to put Rockee down and I couldn't belive my eyes, someone who is a "respected" member would say something like that. I'm glad you have a good attitude about it. I think you know that your both ready for this and honestly I think that now it will be easier on you.
We'll all be here for you and Sas.