As has been said many times here in the past - YOU are the only one who can make this decision. In situations like this it is you and only you which makes it an easy decision and a hard decision all at the same time.

I'm in the same boat with my Carly. I have her one day at a time and when the pain becomes too much for her to bear, I'll make that decision. Then it the pain will become too much for me to bear, but I do it because I love her. As you love your Sassy.

You are in my thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Robin