Hummm. What a delima.... Thoughtless and hateful of her to treat your stuff with such disregard. Is there any way you can bite the bullet and go get it yourself? In my last move I lost some of my stuff too... things that meant a lot to me. I had moved in with a friend that talked me into getting my stuff out of storage and stashing it at her house. She assigned me a area in her house to put it so as not to get it mixed up with some of hers.. We had a falling out and I moved out. When I went back to get it, I realized once unpacking that some of my prized momento's were not there. She had moved all my stuff to a different location in her house to store it and obviously didn't kept it all together. Did I go back and ask her where it was? No.. she was so tiwsted by the time I left that I knew she would say I was accusing her of stealing and it would have been a no win situation for me so I just wrote it off as gone...