Quote Originally Posted by cyber-sibes
I read a book that profoundly changed how I make decisions - it's called "Joy is My Compass" (by Alan Cohen). Joy is what guides me in deciding what will bring me the greater satisfaction with my life. If I'm thinking about two directions to go, I go with the one that feels more joyful & light -- it's where my heart will be.

The journey (even if it looks longer or harder) will not be a burden when your heart is light.
Cyber-Sibes, I'm reading a book by Alan Cohen now called "Why Your Life Sucks - And What You Can Do About It"


Pembroke Corgi, I do both. I hate making big decisions because I'm always afraid I'll make the wrong choice, so I sit down and make a do it/don't do it list and that usually helps me to see it one way or the other.

About flipping a coin - I've read that a coin toss can be effective because it can make you realize which one you're preferring.

I have a co-worker who always says "Better the devil you know than the one you don't" if that helps you at all.