Quote Originally Posted by caseysmom
I really don't mind bringing food, its hard to explain my sis but I can sum it up with a story. One year my mom brought a friend with her for one of the holidays I can't remember but I think it was christmas, the lady was a widower and would have been alone. My sister griped about it for months that my mom brought her "since she only had one arm and could hardly even help" okay, can anyone believe that?

What a sad person she must be. I think I'd start my own family
tradition & it would not include any negative people. Don't know
about you but, it's so draining emotionally to be around people like that.