Oh my gosh... I'm just seeing all this now. I hope Grant will be ok. It's probably a catch 22 with Ash and work. She should be working to pay rent (and other bills, besides shopping), and yet she needs to watch Cam. Either way, it shouldn't have to be you and Grant being the "parents" to Cam.

I know it's gotta be hard to be in your position, since the kids are Grant's and you know how kids pull crap and all the "you're not my mother" stuff, and just being teens and all that. Although, with Grant's son being 21, and Ash being a mom already, if they want to be treated as adults, they need to act like adults, and causing you and Grant more stress and a possible heart attack is not helping their cause. They really need to step up to the plate and be more responsible. I hope they get that hint really soon.

If you need anything, I'm only about 45 mins. away... and I drive like a madwoman, so can get anywhere you need quickly, lol!

Big hugs, and prayers, to you and Grant. Hope things will calm down soon, and the kids will get a clue about their behavior sooner rather than later.