Candace, this is the first thread I have read about your relationship with your BF. My gut feeling right now though, is that he is not looking or at least not ready for a serious relationship right now. I know for a fact that I would not be treated like a guest in my BF's home! It's a new house, a fresh start ... not the place that was home to him and his former wife .... so what is sacred about his "furniture"?

Good luck and I wish you well, just don't want to see you hurt!

Kim