Gary, she was a blessing to you for many years as you were to her. She would not want you to be sad but to be joyous that you had each other for so long and to remember all the beauty she brought to your fine hotel. She'd want you to remember the warmth she spread in all those piles she joined into and in your life. She would say to you, "Remember me with warn fuzzy feelings!". I am sorry for your loss and I know the pain. God be with you in your time of sorrow.