I guess my mom's cat, Fritti, was gay or something, because he acted more like a female than anything. Other than his insatible bloodlust for the death and destruction of all human kind minus his beloved mother. O_o
He never yowled. He was so quiet, sometimes we forgot he COULD mew. And he never jumped on anything he wasn't supposed to, and loved snuggling my mom's arm and shoulder, not her boobs XD
Maybe he was just special like that.

You can never know.

But Clover and Echo are most definitely female. I don't think they've ever knocked anything down, at least not on purpose, and while clover likes to snuggle and will often lay on my chest, her head is pressed against my nose, not... yeah XD
Though echo likes to sleep between my legs, curled up against one knee... she must just like the warmth or something