It is truly odd that after 5 years of being divorced he would call you, but that was nice of him.


I too would have mixed emotions about all of this, and I think you are doing the right thing by attending, but I can't help but wonder if this might be a set-up of sorts...... (yes, I am not the trusting type!)

I know my ex and anything to get me away from people and be surrounded by his family, they would try to fill my head with things. Please just be careful, and don't say anything that will come back and bite you!

Sorry for your loss, this must be a shock to you (and of course his family, too!)