I just try to spread my attention around to all 3 of my cats. Sunny always wants to be the center of attention so I sometimes have to ignore him while I'm giving Pepper or Storm my attention. In the morning Sunny and Pepper get a lot of attention since they are morning cats. Storm gets most of his attention in the afternoon or evenings. I always say goodbye to all 3 and greet all 3 when I get home from work. I usually don't have any problems unless Storm and Sunny want attention at the same time. Since Storm is the alpha cat, Sunny has learned to back down and walk away. Maybe in time Basil will learn to share his attention with Noel and Noah. Which one is the alpha cat? Good luck.