Wow, what a decision to have to make. While I love the idea of spreading the ashes around in a beautiful and meaningful place, I might worry that I won't live in the same place forever.

When I read your post, I thought of a small cedar box I keep on my dresser. It is really a miniture hope chest- measuring maybe 8 inches long, four inches wide, and three inches tall. I keep my special little momentos in there..things that aren't quite jewelry, but are meaningful to me. I thought maybe a small wooden box or ceramic container (like the urn idea) that could be permanently sealed, and could sit someplace special in your home- or even, be stored someplace, if that felt right too.

Remember that Cookie is already in her special place, in your heart, and in heaven, looking down on you. Whatever you decide will be right for you. Thank you for caring sooo much about her. She must have been really well loved.