We work with a bird rescue and foster, and yes many many budgies are turned in. For the reasons you stated, they are tiny but do require a dedication that belies their size.

I truly hope that your life will turn around favorably to have one, as your post tells me there would be a very blessed budgie!!

In the meantime I will happily give all our fosters and our own budgies an extra snuggle and kiss for you ok?