While I don't want her to jump all the time and especially be well-behaved when she's adopted to a new family, I would still like her to come up to me and put her hands on my shoulders when I tell her to. (I love hugs) I just didn't want to confuse her by ignoring her to teach her to stop jumping and then telling her to come up. Wouldn't that just confuse her? I know if I were her, I would be like "okay, lady, what do you want? - up or down - make up your mind?"