When I went to the breeder to pick up my two Abys, the breeder said that the Mama cats like it when their litter leaves the house, and that the Mama cats actually get tired of dealing with the kittens. It is natural for the herd to thin after a few months, so by someone taking the kittens off site, it follows how it would be in real herd life.....herd is not the right word, but you get my drift?

So, back to the Mama thing. If you ever saw a Mama cat or dog with the offsprings....they really let them have it once in awhile, to keep them in line. When my cats get out of hand, I usually scoop them up and confine them tightly so they will stay still and listen...right!

I don't think it is bad to try to refine the kittens bad habits and only you know what works for you and your pet. I think each kitty is a bit different.

Pinching, well, I have never tried it but I have done a head (between the eyes) tapping.........with my finger......to get their attention. That seemed to work to. Also, holding them by the back of their neck also mimicks their Mama's treatment and handling.

Kittens, can't live with them and can't live without them.