Quote Originally Posted by jenluckenbach
In a way, I am glad you found out WHO was doing all the peeing. And I personally think that you should do the hard choice. Trust me when I say that I know that even though she is a foster, you will feel like you are doing this to one of your own. But you really need to think of the LARGER good, starting with your own sanity. And even though the change may be hard for Furbee at first she may very well find another (more suitable to HER needs) foster home.

PLEASE, I beg of you to think of yourself and your home and your other kitties FIRST. (you have my permission. LOL)
Well, yes, she is the kitchen peer, and I believe she pees on the dining room table as well, cause she sleep on it (so that would be territorial). But she's not the only peer. So, do I punish her for peeing in the kitchen, while some of the others still pee against the walls??

It just bothers me. She is sweet. She slept by me for a long time on Saturday when I was working at the dining room table (now having no tablecloth on it at all...). I don't know of any other fosters who don't have any cats, or just one other. Well, Elaine does, but she wants cats that will get adopted easily. That's not Furbee. I don't want to doom her to a life in the shelter, she'll just be miserable.

As for caging and retraining that was suggested... if you would hear the bloodcurdling screams she makes when confined, good lord!!! It's enough to wake the dead. I don't know what her former owners did to the poor girl, but someone really mistreated her. She just breaks my heart.