My friend is having problems and I don't know how to help her! See she has older friends and one is like her best friend ever(the woman is truly a good person and very sweet!) But ever since she befriended this woman's hubby she is feeling uncomfortable around him. Mostly because when they talk he gets a bit personal. She doesn't know if he's joking or not because her friends and her often joke about dirty/stupid things(I mean nothing bad really, just stuff to laugh at that's all). He's not really a perv at ALL but some things he said made her feel uncomfortable. Like sometimes he tells her he loves her, which she assumed he means in a friend way(because her and her friends always say love you, ect.. before they stop talking). Or when they joke about her having a "guy" mind he said "if only you were a bit older. LOL" OR after she was chatting online back and forth between her hubby(in one room) and her friend(in another room) he told her not to tell his wife they were talking but then he left. So now she feels guilty and has this awful feeling in her stomach and doesn't know what to do. She doesn't want to hurt/embarrass anyone but doesn't want to accidently lead the guy on because she loves her best friend a lot. She's not sure if this guy is making a poor attempt to fit in the group or is just being weird. So what do you guys think?
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