I think it's good and bad. In some ways its a good idea, so you aren't wasting your money on useless gifts, and on the downside it DOES seem almost greedy. When I get a wedding invitation and it says "registerd at wherever" I get a feeling of "greedy list of demands", even though that may not always be the case. I dunno I guess I'm kind of in a toss up about it. It is helpful, but I also would rather give a gift certificate rather than seeing the actual lists. It really only bothers me I guess when I see a list that has things for hudnreds of dollars on it and expensive items, that I think is unfair of anyone to actuall expect people to buy for them. When I see that it makes me want to not get them anything=x