Quote Originally Posted by shais_mom
and how about the person using their own card instead of yours? Unless he is an authorized user with his name on his own card he shouldn't be using it anyway.
He has written permission & its on my VISA file that he's doing the wedding shopping, as I have to work during the day. Hes a stay at home nanny for my friend's 2yr old (I live with them), so he can do most of the shopping during the day, when shops are open.

VISA has already called me at work several times to make sure my file was correct, that Chad has permission to sign/use the card...

Chad doesn't have his own credit card anylonger. Not getting into the details (he did nothing wrong, he was a victim), but that mess will be fixed soon. However soon wasn't fast enough, as the wedding is on Dec 2ed.