They're not great for the ego but two things that you can do are to A) wear your plan pants and wrap a hairtie around the button and button hole. That would give you a few extra inches of wiggle room. B) You can also just buy your normal clothes in a bigger size. I opted to go straight for my early maternity clothes rather than buying bigger sizes because my self esteem couldn't handle my buying a size 16 I am right there with you with showing early this time around. I wanted so badly to make a t-shirt that says "Look but don't touch" when I was pregnant with Tyler!!