Quote Originally Posted by Lobodeb
I never said he was stupid, incompetent or can't do anything right. I did say he was lazy.



I did sit down and talk to him, and that's when I found out that he couldn't get a ride. He then lied to me and said he asked my mom what I wanted. He claims that she told him she didn't know. That is a lie on 2 fronts. He never asked her, and 2, she kept a list of what I wanted so she would know.

Someone else suggested that I keep a wish list. I do. He must have forgotten about it.

But to answer your question, yes I am disgusted with him, but not just over this birthday incident. There is a lot more going on that fueled this blow out.

Thanks everyone for your opinions. I did ask for them, however, I didn't ask to be called names, but none the less, I put my business out there, so I'm fair game, I guess.

I didn't know about the lying and that IS 100% unacceptable. Did you ask your mother about that? I hope you confronted him about that. I most certainly would confront my husband if he ever lied to me. It really sounds like there are some serious problems and I really do hope you can both get past this "rough patch".

I can understand somewhat about the driving though. I don't drive. i don't even have my license. i do NOT like to drive. I detest it. I sometimes feel bad because my husband has to do all the driving, but he knew about this before he married me. I am simply not comfortable in a vehicle ESPECIALLY to drive it.

I don't recall anyone calling you names I could be wrong but I just don't have the energy or ambition right now to go check LOL.

I have been in some TERRIBLe relationships. They were full of lies, anger, arguments, and hateful words. I will NEVER be in a relationship like that again. I will always tell the truth even when it hurts, I will not dwell on the past, and I will not manipulate OR be manipulated. I made it perfectly clear when my husband and I started dating that if he ever felt the need to disrespect me that I would make short work of that. I give him all the respect in the world and he does the same for me and I would not tolerate any different. Respect and honesty are expected, demanded, and always reciprocated (this goes for him and myself).

Bob's Dad. LOL I didn't take it seriously. I don't get angry (unless it is called for) A lot ofpeople read my posts and think I am upset or a real harda$$ but you can't really tell from a post (unless I used some choice words LOL) The only thing that matters in my life is my family, friends and all our well being. the rest is just too piddly to get upset about. I have a sister who is angry ALL the time and what a terrible way to live life. Life is too short to be angry. I always find your sarcasm funny and refreshing I grew up in sarcasmville LOL when visiting with my family you better leave your feelings at the door haha because we are full of sarcasm (amongst other things lol).